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Title: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: KSM on December 19, 2022, 10:46:35 AM
I don't know how to do this.

I woke to find that I had a voicemail on my phone. The distressed voice was that of an elderly woman who would inform me that her name was Carrol, and that she was Sean's mom. In the message she went on to tell me that he had passed away early this morning. I literally could not believe what I was hearing.

After gathering myself I returned the phone call. She/mom/Carrol is awaiting further details and will keep me posted, but as of now it seems heart related. He had the shakes a few days ago and developed a high fever of 103, and he was napping a lot. Last night Carrol told him she wanted to call 911 or take him to the hospital but he declined and said that he would be fine and just to let him rest. She found him hours later after waking thinking that she heard him moving around. He wasn't. He was in bed and his mouth was foaming. Carrol tried pounding on his chest ETC but Sean remained unresponsive. Paramedics were called.  That is all I can relay at this point.


Some here know (knew) Sean on a level that went beyond these pages. @Rikki Gins @GravitySucks @PolkaDot @TigerLily I believe he also talked to FISH on the phone from time to time. I am sorry if I am leaving anyone out, but this is all I was aware of. @Bart Ell I can tell you that he thought that you were one of the funniest people ever, and that you cracked him up on several occasions.

Sean was a great guy. We talked many times on the phone over the last two years. In fact, he was the only male friend I've ever had where several hours would go by and we're still gabbing on the damn phone. He was an incredibly supportive friend to me while I was in the process of losing everything these last many months. His health problems were adding up and the system full of red tape was dragging its heels so he never knew exactly where he stood with medical appointments and such.

I could go on and on, but this is about him.

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Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: ItsOver on December 19, 2022, 10:54:01 AM
I am truly shocked and stunned. I am beyond sorry to hear this. He always had such a great sense of humor and I always enjoyed his good natured posts.

My very deepest condolences to his mother, family, and friends.

Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: Bart Ell on December 19, 2022, 11:06:57 AM
I hope he finds himself in a place with endless filthy orgies and with the freedom to enjoy a prostate massage during oral sex without the reservations he may have had when he was among us.

I wish we had a chance to hear his karaoke recordings... especially Boz Scaggs.

Years ago he was the first one to request a Christmas card from me and seeing him letting everyone in on his Christmas plans for this year makes this extra sucky. I can't imagine the pain his mother is experiencing.

Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: KSM on December 19, 2022, 11:28:09 AM
I hope he finds himself in a place with endless filthy orgies and with the freedom to enjoy a prostate massage during oral sex without the reservations he may have had when he was among us.

I wish we had a chance to hear his karaoke recordings... especially Boz Scaggs.

Years ago he was the first one to request a Christmas card from me and seeing him letting everyone in on his Christmas plans for this year makes this extra sucky. I can't imagine the pain his mother is experiencing.

LOL Yeah, his Karaoke songs. He really wanted to start signing. Wanted a bass guitar too. I do believe that he would have eventually gotten to such things. Speaking of cards, he recently sent me both Thanksgiving and Christmas cards. Ahhh

PS He was a Christmas baby.
Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: damon on December 19, 2022, 11:39:58 AM
I don't know how to do this.

I woke to find that I had a voicemail on my phone. The distressed voice was that of an elderly woman who would inform me that her name was Carrol, and that she was Sean's mom. In the message she went on to tell me that he had passed away early this morning. I literally could not believe what I was hearing.

After gathering myself I returned the phone call. She/mom/Carrol is awaiting further details and will keep me posted, but as of now it seems heart related. He had the shakes a few days ago and developed a high fever of 103, and he was napping a lot. Last night Carrol told him she wanted to call 911 or take him to the hospital but he declined and said that he would be fine and just to let him rest. She found him hours later after waking thinking that she heard him moving around. He wasn't. He was in bed and his mouth was foaming. Carrol tried pounding on his chest ETC but Sean remained unresponsive. Paramedics were called.  That is all I can relay at this point.


Some here know (knew) Sean on a level that went beyond these pages. @Rikki Gins @GravitySucks @PolkaDot @TigerLily I believe he also talked to FISH on the phone from time to time. I am sorry if I am leaving anyone out, but this is all I was aware of. @Bart Ell I can tell you that he thought that you were one of the funniest people ever, and that you cracked him up on several occasions.

Sean was a great guy. We talked many times on the phone over the last two years. In fact, he was the only male friend I've ever had where several hours would go by and we're still gabbing on the damn phone. He was an incredibly supportive friend to me while I was in the process of losing everything these last many months. His health problems were adding up and the system full of red tape was dragging its heels so he never knew exactly where he stood with medical appointments and such.

I could go on and on, but this is about him.

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@KSM i'm sorry to hear about your friend.
Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: KSM on December 19, 2022, 11:51:10 AM
@KSM i'm sorry to hear about your friend.

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Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: ItsOver on December 19, 2022, 11:54:58 AM
I still can’t believe it. Here today, gone tomorrow.  :( :'(
Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: JUAN on December 19, 2022, 12:08:13 PM
I’m shocked, too. Always enjoyed his posts. My condolences to his fam8ly.
Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: bateman on December 19, 2022, 02:19:21 PM
Horrible news, especially for his family and our friends here just before the holidays. He was a really sweet guy and will be missed.
Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: sean92008 on December 19, 2022, 03:19:06 PM
😿

I enjoyed some of those his observations... A photo while walking around. Real organic, genuine.  I'm very sad.

Hopefully the event was not stressful or painful. Sounds like it might have been an steady wind down. (A dulling of the senses kind of embolism.)
Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: Walks_At_Night on December 19, 2022, 04:01:21 PM
I'm stunned.

What awful news. He was a very nice man and the world is a lesser place without him in it. I can not imagine the shock, horror and pain that his Mother is feeling now.  I know he mentioned that they were planning on having a quiet Christmas day together which sounded wonderful. I will pray for Shay's soul, his Mother and family.

God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.  Psalms 46:1
Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: bateman on December 19, 2022, 04:16:33 PM
I'll make breakfast and dinner.  Breakfast will be the usual eggs, buckwheat pancakes, and peppered bacon.

Dinner will be a roasted Beef Tri-Tip with chanterelle mushrooms and Bordelaise sauce (If I can find bone marrow that isn't cost prohibitive! Otherwise, Red Wine glazed).  Served with Gouda mashed potatoes and fresh herbs, roasted yellow or purple cauliflower (if I can still get either), and pan fried green beans with garlic.  I may do charred asparagus instead.  I'm on the fence.

Dessert will be a brûléed vanilla brioche bread pudding.

I probably will make a German style Riesling Soup as well.

I feel compelled to make this over the holidays.
Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: Walks_At_Night on December 19, 2022, 04:25:52 PM
I feel compelled to make this over the holidays.

Good luck. I can't even pronounce some of it.
Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: sean92008 on December 19, 2022, 04:50:26 PM
Our plans are so frail.

His Christmas menu sounds great. I'd grill the asparagus AND green beans with oil, pepper and sesame seeds, if I were to put a little Japanese twist to it.

It's got to be really hard, even into old age, when you bury a child. That is so abhorrent to nature.

I left a to-do list for my oldest when I die.  It includes coming here and stringing together a long list of expletives, all aimed at @KSM, of course. The instructions go on to make sure that accusations of him being a closeted Yngwie Malmsteen fanboi are made.
😁😁😁😁
Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: TigerLily on December 19, 2022, 06:23:35 PM
I'm still stunned. I don't have words yet. But I know if I had ever seen him walking down the street I would recognize him immediately. Especially if he were wearing the infamous yellow sundress.
I got to know Sean/Shay back in the Old Country when he invited me several times to join the After Midnight gang. It was always late for me but I thought if this Yinzer can stay up late this Cali can. Hilarity with Hogie ensued. Over the years he really became a friend. Funny, sweet. Always a gentleman. I was honored when he made a sandwich just for me. Lots of special memories. He was definitely one of the good guys. And he introduced me to Iron Maiden! I will miss you so much. Rest easy, my dear friend. Up the Irons!

Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: GravitySucks on December 19, 2022, 07:42:54 PM
I’ll miss the dude.

I’ve met a handful of ‘gabbers over the years and @ShayP was one of the ones I had the chance to meet. I was in the DC area before he moved back to Pittsburgh. He drove up from Rebel country and we toured the air and space museum out at Dulles.

I thought enough of him to send him my only baseball bobble head after he moved back to Pittsburgh. The Pirates gave away a Sean Casey bobble head the day they traded him to the Detroit Tigers in July of 2006. I happened to be at the game and @ShayP was a fan of the guy they called “The Mayor”. So I sent him a surprise gift.

He was a good guy. He claimed he overcame his lifelong fear of crossing the Mississippi River and threatened to visit numerous times but never did. He’s free to roam around now.
Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: KSM on December 19, 2022, 10:09:43 PM
Our plans are so frail.

His Christmas menu sounds great. I'd grill the asparagus AND green beans with oil, pepper and sesame seeds, if I were to put a little Japanese twist to it.

It's got to be really hard, even into old age, when you bury a child. That is so abhorrent to nature.

I left a to-do list for my oldest when I die.  It includes coming here and stringing together a long list of expletives, all aimed at @KSM, of course. The instructions go on to make sure that accusations of him being a closeted Yngwie Malmsteen fanboi are made.
😁😁😁😁
HAHAhaha!  Fucker! @sean92008 I don't hate Yngwie. I was already taken by George and Angus so my storehouse was full in those formative years.  ;D
Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: sean92008 on December 19, 2022, 10:48:43 PM
HAHAhaha!  Fucker! @sean92008 I don't hate Yngwie. I was already taken by George and Angus so my storehouse anushole was full in those formative years.  ;D

FIFY - RIP ShayP
Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: Uncle Duke on December 20, 2022, 06:02:37 AM
Very sorry to hear this, ShayP struck me as a gentle soul with a good sense of humor.  Will someone be posting his obituary, assuming one is available?
Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: TigerLily on December 20, 2022, 09:20:30 AM
KSM is in touch with ShayP's mother so if there is one he can get it through her. I know Shay had been dealing with health issues and was frustrated with the medical support he was getting
Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: Uncle Duke on December 20, 2022, 09:30:57 AM
KSM is in touch with ShayP's mother so if there is one he can get it through her. I know Shay had been dealing with health issues and was frustrated with the medical support he was getting

Thanks TL, hopefully we can see his obit.
Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: KSM on December 20, 2022, 10:00:38 AM
KSM is in touch with ShayP's mother so if there is one he can get it through her. I know Shay had been dealing with health issues and was frustrated with the medical support he was getting
I have her permission to relay any further information when it comes. So I will. I imagine the autopsy will take a few days. She is having him cremated.  A mom to outlive her son.. ugh

PS his dad was a scumbag and has never been part of the picture.
Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: Exile on December 22, 2022, 01:32:11 AM
There is no way I can say anything more than what has been said here before me. He always struck as a kind and gentle soul. Not to mention a funny joker at heart.

You will be missed ShayP. RGORH will not be the same without you.  Fish and now you have went to the other side.

The rest of you better make plans on sticking around until I go.

:( :-\ :'( :-[
Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: TigerLily on December 22, 2022, 08:53:49 AM
Don't be in any rush @Exile . Those have been hard enough on my heart. Merry Christmas
Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: whoozit on December 22, 2022, 03:37:13 PM
I leave for a few days and return to this shitty news.  I didn’t know him well but I am glad I knew him a little through this place.
Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: Exile on December 23, 2022, 04:07:49 PM
Don't be in any rush @Exile . Those have been hard enough on my heart. Merry Christmas

I'm not in any rush, that's for sure. Too many of us have disappeared or passed to the other side, though. It does weigh on the heart.

Happy Festivus to you!

:)
Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: Sofia on December 24, 2022, 12:56:40 AM
RIP ShayP.  What a sincere, nice, perceptive person.
Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: comaphobe on December 24, 2022, 07:40:34 AM
I came here to look for something that was posted a long time ago. I noticed this right away on the main page and what a downer it is to read that.

He was always pleasant, and really fun to chat with during Hoaxland's live threads.

Rest in peace ShayP.
Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: Jayzelady on December 24, 2022, 08:16:45 AM
Such sad news at what should have been a happy time for him and his family. I also very much enjoyed reading his posts like all of you. Getting old myself truly brings home just how special and fragile life is. My heartfelt condolences to his family. May God’s blessings bring them courage and comfort in this rough time.
Repose en Paix, Bon Ami.
Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: PolkaDot on December 24, 2022, 10:55:59 AM
 :'(
Happy Birthday Shay. You are missed.
Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: Dateline on December 25, 2022, 08:52:19 AM
I am so very sorry to read this news.  ShayP always made some very accurate and funny observations on the Coast threads.  I always looked for his "good day in the neighborhood" avatar. 

Please rest in peace and condolences to his friends and families. 
Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: Zetaspeak on December 29, 2022, 04:54:22 PM
I been taking a few weeks off because of Christmas craziness on the home front. I did not expect this coming back, I am so sad to hear this. Shay might have been my favorite person on here, he was just so friendly and never seem to get to worked up with drama and a great range of personality be it sports, entertainment or C2C threads. I know he would take breaks some times and I would DM him or ask around if he's okay because his absence would always stand out to me. I am looking at his DM to me now, I am glad I was able to tell him on a few occasions how much I enjoyed his contributions in private and public.
Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: paladin1991 on January 18, 2023, 11:05:12 AM
Well shit. 

I've been  out  of circulation getting some long overdue biomechanics.... mechaniced.

All the best words have been said. RIP, bro.

And thanks KSM for bringing us this sad news.   
Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: KSM on January 18, 2023, 11:57:53 AM
Well shit. 

I've been  out  of circulation getting some long overdue biomechanics.... mechaniced.

All the best words have been said. RIP, bro.

And thanks KSM for bringing us this sad news.
I called his mom last Thursday. Had a good conversation. She is doing as well as can be expected and I made her laugh several times (cuz I'm very fucking funny!) She even asked for a picture of Vera. I intend to stay in touch with her, and told her to call me any time she felt like it.
Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: Bart Ell on January 18, 2023, 12:30:59 PM
I've been  out  of circulation getting some long overdue biomechanics.... mechaniced.

Does your new pussy get wet by itself or do you have to lube it when you want it fucked?





I bet ShayP would have loved this line!
Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: Bart Ell on January 18, 2023, 12:31:53 PM
told her to call me any time she felt like it.

Is phone sex off the table?





I know ShayP would have loved this line!
Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: KSM on January 18, 2023, 12:53:54 PM
Is phone sex off the table?




Canadians  ::)
Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: Walks_At_Night on January 18, 2023, 01:27:02 PM
Canadians  ::)

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Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: Uncle Duke on January 18, 2023, 02:47:26 PM
I called his mom last Thursday. Had a good conversation. She is doing as well as can be expected and I made her laugh several times (cuz I'm very fucking funny!) She even asked for a picture of Vera. I intend to stay in touch with her, and told her to call me any time she felt like it.

Did we ever see an obit for him?
Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: HamsterMuscle on January 18, 2023, 03:24:43 PM
I called his mom last Thursday. Had a good conversation. She is doing as well as can be expected and I made her laugh several times (cuz I'm very fucking funny!) She even asked for a picture of Vera. I intend to stay in touch with her, and told her to call me any time she felt like it.

Are you surprised about this?  You have claimed repeatedly that all the chicks swoon over you.
Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: sean92008 on January 18, 2023, 03:32:00 PM
Canadians  ::)

Yeah, your dollars look funny and aren't worth as much.
Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: KSM on January 18, 2023, 03:45:38 PM
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Hahahaha

Did we ever see an obit for him?
Didn't ask. All I know is that he is being or by now has been cremated. Will update you if I find out.

Are you surprised about this?  You have claimed repeatedly that all the chicks swoon over you.
I am not surprised. All the chicks swoon over me.

Yeah, your dollars look funny and aren't worth as much.
My green (now) looks the same as your does. Goofball.
Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: PolkaDot on January 19, 2023, 08:32:49 AM
I called his mom last Thursday. Had a good conversation. She is doing as well as can be expected and I made her laugh several times (cuz I'm very fucking funny!) She even asked for a picture of Vera. I intend to stay in touch with her, and told her to call me any time she felt like it.

You really shouldn't be flirting with Shay's Mom.  ::) He's definitely going to poltergeist you for that one.
Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: paladin1991 on January 20, 2023, 06:12:27 PM
I called his mom last Thursday. Had a good conversation. She is doing as well as can be expected and I made her laugh several times (cuz I'm very fucking funny!) She even asked for a picture of Vera. I intend to stay in touch with her, and told her to call me any time she felt like it.

How come I can't have a pic of Vera?
Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: paladin1991 on January 20, 2023, 06:13:54 PM
Does your new pussy get wet by itself or do you have to lube it when you want it fucked?





I bet ShayP would have loved this line!

Tranny jokes.  FM the guy who runs and is the only star on the TrannyGranny channel at Pornhub.
Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: TigerLily on February 19, 2023, 05:58:57 PM
Hey!!!! Shay would love this!
Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: KSM on February 19, 2023, 06:24:23 PM
Hey!!!! Shay would love this!

.......OTHER THREAD, LILY!   ::)
Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: Chefist on February 24, 2023, 03:40:32 PM
RIP SHAY-P
Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: KSM on February 24, 2023, 06:59:02 PM
RIP SHAY-P

Deep shit right there.

RED BLOTCHY BROKEN CAPPILARY W.C. FIELDS NOSE FUCKFACE!
Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: whoozit on March 02, 2023, 03:48:57 PM
Started the two day journey of making ham and Gruyère croissants.  Just felt right to mention it in this thread.
Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: Spookcat on June 12, 2023, 05:41:34 PM
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Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: KSM on June 12, 2023, 06:00:31 PM
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Howdy stranger.  Hope you're well.
Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: TigerLily on June 12, 2023, 11:06:20 PM
I miss @ShayP
Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: paladin1991 on July 21, 2023, 03:29:01 PM
I miss @ShayP
Definitely one of a kind. 
Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: KSM on July 21, 2023, 07:08:53 PM
His mom is mad at me. He would laugh his arse off..
Why is she mad? I did not respond in a timely enough manner to an email she sent a few months back. 5 days.
Before that I would call and check in on her once or twice a month, and now she no longer answers the phone.
She is a very nice person.


I have an uncanny knack for annoying women of all ages it seems.


My job is done.
Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: Walks_At_Night on July 21, 2023, 08:32:25 PM
I have an uncanny knack for annoying women of all ages it seems.

How are things going with the chicken woman?
Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: KSM on July 21, 2023, 09:12:31 PM
How are things going with the chicken woman?

Stuffed her with goodness and cooked her breast up.
Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: Walks_At_Night on July 22, 2023, 04:50:59 AM
Stuffed her with goodness and cooked her breast up.

Atta Boy!!!!!  Just like riding a bike.
Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: KSM on July 22, 2023, 01:13:14 PM
Atta Boy!!!!!  Just like riding a bike.
Forgot to mention basting in her own juices every 20 minutes.
Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: KSM on August 20, 2023, 08:41:05 AM
How are things going with the chicken woman?

Stuffed her with goodness and cooked her breast up.

Atta Boy!!!!!  Just like riding a bike.

Forgot to mention basting in her own juices every 20 minutes.

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Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: whoozit on December 31, 2023, 02:20:18 PM
This just seems the right place to post this as ShayP would understand.  Spent the last three days making Demi glacé.  Started with around eighteen quarts of stuff and ended up with just under three.  Well worth it as it is the best tasting stuff ever.
Title: Re: Remembering @ShayP
Post by: sean92008 on December 31, 2023, 03:46:36 PM
This just seems the right place to post this as ShayP would understand.  Spent the last three days making Demi glacé.  Started with around eighteen quarts of stuff and ended up with just under three.  Well worth it as it is the best tasting stuff ever.

Hi Cornelius.
😁😁😁