What sites or chat rooms are you talking about exactly? I really have no idea. But if what you say is true, that is creepy.
I have no idea all the stuff that was said/done on these other sites or personally between you and gwen. I only know what I heard on your show. On your show, she was good. She was good at bringing up things you had not heard on heather's show to give you facts that you did not know. All the other stuff I have no idea about.
That said, just be kind of careful sharing too much info publicly. You seem to really care about her. She may take you sharing things in a negative way.
I know you like heather. I get it. But please do not lose sight of facts when dealing with Heather. I hope she can be able to make her new show work. But she has been giving a lot of inconsistent information. Love heather, but do not lose sight of reality. Just my opinion.