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Title: FLR (Female Led Relationsship) WTF?
Post by: KSM on June 04, 2019, 08:34:03 PM
Until today I didn't know this was even a thing. I heard my two grunts talking during lunch when one of them (Arden) piped up laughing saying he thinks he may be in a "level two FLR" .. I had to stop working and ask him what that meant, FLR? I guess there are four levels, and level four has the man reduced to nothing more than an existing thing that does all household chores, cooks and does WHATEVER he is told, OR ELSE! Oh, in all levels SHE controls all finance and makes ALL decisions, period! As far as sex goes, the man who is usually made to wear revealing feminine clothing 24/7 is reduced to chastity devices, and he is nothing more than a tongue. Essentially, his is face is now a seat. :o

The above doesn't even scratch the surface. Yes! I googled it when I got home.  I just, don't get it. Weird. What man, or should I say, what woman would want a completely sissified man servant? There's no real relationship there.

I'm going to fire Arden as soon as this big contract is finished. ;D
Title: Re: FLR (Female Led Relationsship) WTF?
Post by: Sofia on June 04, 2019, 09:01:57 PM
Until today I didn't know this was even a thing. I heard my two grunts talking during lunch when one of them (Arden) piped up laughing saying he thinks he may be in a "level two FLR" .. I had to stop working and ask him what that meant, FLR? I guess there are four levels, and level four has the man reduced to nothing more than an existing thing that does all household chores, cooks and does WHATEVER he is told, OR ELSE! Oh, in all levels SHE controls all finance and makes ALL decisions, period! As far as sex goes, the man who is usually made to wear revealing feminine clothing 24/7 is reduced to chastity devices, and he is nothing more than a tongue. Essentially, his is face is now a seat. :o

The above doesn't even scratch the surface. Yes! I googled it when I got home.  I just, don't get it. Weird. What man, or should I say, what woman would want a completely sissified man servant? There's no real relationship there.

I'm going to fire Arden as soon as this big contract is finished. ;D
Working people are working longer hours and harder than ever.  If he works overtime, it makes sense for her to manage their lifestyle.

I think there's always been women-led marriages.  Sadie Hawkins dances serve a good purpose.  Some guys who have a strong mother might be more comfortable with a leading lady.  And, women have always stepped up when men are serving in war, or absent due to work.  A man can't just return in the middle of that and expect it to be what it was when he left.

As long as no one is trying to fit into a certain label, people should do what works best for them.

I see a lot of wives driving and their husbands being passengers.  I've looked to see, and never once have I detected any self-conscious embarrassment on the man's part.  Maybe she is the more cautious driver & doesn't like getting bounced around when he takes curves too fast.  Maybe she has better credit & it's her vehicle...?

Men have led for eras.  Maybe they need a break once in a while.

As a man ages, and with women generally living longer, it would behoove him to adjust to a woman's influence, because someday he's probably going to need to give the reins to her.
Title: Re: FLR (Female Led Relationsship) WTF?
Post by: PB on June 04, 2019, 10:59:01 PM
... What man, or should I say, what woman would want a completely sissified man servant?...

There's a Noory and Tommy joke in there somewhere
Title: Re: FLR (Female Led Relationsship) WTF?
Post by: KSM on June 04, 2019, 11:03:22 PM
@Sofia
Seriously, I don't think you read my post. Not to be crass but as usual you just go off into your vaguely related opinion on the matter as if you base your thoughts solely on the title of the thread.  This is not your mothers feminism.

https://filthy.media/develop-a-female-led-relationship

https://www.thecuckoldconsultant.com/articles/4-levels-female-led-relationships/

http://www.realflr.com/about-flr.html
Title: Re: FLR (Female Led Relationsship) WTF?
Post by: KSM on June 04, 2019, 11:05:18 PM
There's a Noory and Tommy joke in there somewhere
NOT NOW, PB.
Title: Re: FLR (Female Led Relationsship) WTF?
Post by: Sofia on June 05, 2019, 12:06:00 AM
@Sofia
Seriously, I don't think you read my post. Not to be crass but as usual you just go off into your vaguely related opinion on the matter as if you base your thoughts solely on the title of the thread.  This is not your mothers feminism.

https://filthy.media/develop-a-female-led-relationship

https://www.thecuckoldconsultant.com/articles/4-levels-female-led-relationships/

http://www.realflr.com/about-flr.html
You don't sound very female-led tonight.  But I know you are. 

I not only read your post, I Googled the trend and read three articles, including the one in the middle there.  One article was filthy, worthless, divisive sensationalism.  The second was informative.  The third I don't remember.

You want my timed Firefox search history?  Too bad  :P.
Title: Re: FLR (Female Led Relationsship) WTF?
Post by: JUAN on June 05, 2019, 04:20:28 AM
I ran across a tv show the other day where the guys customized motorcycles. They had done a chopper for a young couple. When the couple came to pick it up, the woman got on to drive, and the shorts, hoodie, and beard wearing alleged man got on the bitch seat.

I was recently in a coffee shop at 9:30 in the morning for a business meeting. A group of men, all dressed as the above guy except these all wore slide shoes, were discussing what was “on their plate” for the day. Things like taking the cat to the vet, picking up children, grocery shopping. Not one mentioned working to earn money.

We’re in a different world.
Title: Re: FLR (Female Led Relationsship) WTF?
Post by: Azzerae on June 05, 2019, 08:17:37 AM
Title: Re: FLR (Female Led Relationsship) WTF?
Post by: KSM on June 05, 2019, 04:01:23 PM
I ran across a tv show the other day where the guys customized motorcycles. They had done a chopper for a young couple. When the couple came to pick it up, the woman got on to drive, and the shorts, hoodie, and beard wearing alleged man got on the bitch seat.

Hank Hill disgusted sound.