heather was a member here??
how'd I miss that? or am I misunderstanding
Not that I know of. There have been rumours she reads here, which would imply she was using an account at least early on in Ellgab's history, but I don't give these rumours too much veracity.
She was invited to the WadeGab facebook group, but isn't there. (I am only going by what I have heard as I haven't had an account on facebook in years, so we are in the same boat there, timebandit.)