Right, so your issue is not with the guy who did the vid, but the fact that he didn’t get the hassle you got?
Whilst I understood your reasoning with going, and think ultimately you acted mostly properly, do you not think that your previous actions might have caused people to be concerned?
The guy who posted the vid, had he posted pics of him and Heather in bed, or kissing, or had he made comments about Heather of a sexual nature? Whilst I don’t always agree with the shit you post at times, I do know you well enough to know that you wouldn’t do anything fucking stupid, BUT you have a lot of people who do not view you as favourably as I have in the past (I say past because you are acting like a prize prick in a lot of ways lately).
You have to view things in context, not in isolation.
Facebook overprotective assholes dramatized my trip. took advantage of my good intentions and my good spirits. Made the trip about themselves. And wanted in on the drama. especially lasha and smog and wadegab. Dramatized my visit.