My complaint is that I'm so sick of people volunteering me for things. I can't even get my own damn house in order. The biggest culprit is my mother and then my aunt. If I say I'm not doing it, I get "Well I told them you would", or, "Why can't you do this for me?" Then they try the whole guilt trip thing. I'm immune to that.
One of my friends back in Virginia sent me a text stating that he told his wife I would cook for their family reunion. He never asked me. Just said he'd pay for my gas and what date I should be there. LOL! I'm not doing it. My response was "No, you should've asked." His response was "What's the problem? At first I thought he was kidding, but he wasn't.
I was also volunteered to cook holiday dinners for other people, paint the interior of a house, and fill in for a dude who doesn't give a shit about his step son. I was apparently appointed to be that surrogate. Take him places. Show him how to do some things. I've met him twice (the step father). I studied his behavior. Not a fan. He's lazy and I suspect he's on something. Makes me nervous because he seems like a tweeker. Anyway, He favors his son from his ex, and doesn't care about the step son. And yes, I did state that I studied his behavior. I like to size people up and go by my instinct to see who I'm dealing with.
I am infuriated to say the least and none of these things will happen. The blowback will be strong and I do not care. However, I will say I may help the kid out, but it depends. It's not going to be a regular thing.
My apologies. That turned into a rant instead of a complaint. I was hit with all this crap over the last few days and I am irritated.
