... CoffeE*
65 miles away, so I really need a legit reason to meat meet.
Well, how about ''I'll be in your town later this week, would you like to meat for coffe?''
If she interrogates you further, you can either offer a simple lie - or tell the truth and see if she's flattered or scared. She won't give you the third degree, any lie will do, she'll get it, you'll be fine. The rest is up to you. You're welcome.