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This is a real scenario.  Regarding the salutation, "Have a nice day", GD believes

It is polite.
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It is too commanding.
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It is juvenile.
0 (0%)
No one actually means it.
0 (0%)

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Voting closed: January 28, 2019, 01:49:27 AM

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Re: Living With Grandma's Daughter
« Reply #90 on: February 09, 2019, 02:51:26 AM »
And more negative surprises.  She claims not to be a Christian and it shows. 

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Re: Living With Grandma's Daughter
« Reply #91 on: February 16, 2019, 12:28:29 AM »
Last night, I volunteered to clean the oven.  No problem.  Then today she pulled a surprise & says a realtor will be here tomorrow.  I replied, "I wish you would have told me yesterday so I could have prioritized."  She didn't know what I meant.  I told her if she had let me know yesterday, I could have paced myself cleaning my areas which do show, instead of spending hours cleaning the inside of an oven.  She still doesn't really "get it".

It's just insulting.  As if my appearance, my impression doesn't matter at all.  She is so backwards.  You'd think she'd want my areas white glove clean so she could subtly mention to the realtor that I am looking for a private live-in care giving job, in case the realtor knows anyone.  Or subtly mention I'm here because I'm not getting enough office work, in case the realtor knows someone hiring.  But, GD won't do that. 

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Re: Living With Grandma's Daughter
« Reply #92 on: February 17, 2019, 12:01:13 AM »
Today's shift was cut by 4.5 hours.  Then it was cut by another 3 hours.  But I got paid for some.  How awful.  Not the first time lately.

Two prior employers did not declare my wages to Employment Security.  So, when I received my unemployment checks, they were substantially smaller than my entitlement.  What a shocking finding this weekend.  I'll have to contact them.


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Re: Living With Grandma's Daughter
« Reply #93 on: March 07, 2019, 02:08:20 AM »
That worked out well.  Everything was proper even though it didn't look right.

Bio-mom was gone a night due to the weather, staying with a friend.  I was able to put a lock on my closet door, since she made a threat against my work clothes & shoes, and other items in there.  I don't think she would really follow through, as abusing someone's stuff is illegal.  But just in case.  I would rather put the lock on the bedroom door, but I don't want to have a fight over it or risk the cat losing liberty.  She won't notice the closet lock, though.

I hate how she gets mean right after I pay rent, or clean house.  Simply perverted.  If I were able, I would look at her and say, "You are being rude.  I just paid you rent.  Because you are being rude, I am going to stop the rent check.  I will write you another check on a better day, but I'm not going to have you be rude after I just handed you hundreds of dollars."

As for her being rude on nights after I cleaned her home, I can't really go back & make things a mess.  It would only hurt me.  All I can do is slow down on chores in common areas.  Or just do a little at a time, which is kind of what I've adjusted to.

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Re: Living With Grandma's Daughter
« Reply #94 on: March 09, 2019, 07:20:13 PM »
And I thought I had it bad with FIL.
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Re: Living With Grandma's Daughter
« Reply #95 on: March 09, 2019, 11:20:51 PM »
And I thought I had it bad with FIL.
Nice to have a little sympathy.  Well, I got home & all my stuff is still here so evidently her threat a few weeks ago (with today's date) was cancelled.  So, she was law-abiding and we have a peaceful night sans hot cops...  :).

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Re: Living With Grandma's Daughter
« Reply #96 on: April 04, 2019, 01:47:29 PM »
I guess I've gotten used to the ridiculous.  She thrives on drama.  Working a lot lately helps.  Neighbors are catching on to her evil ways and she wants to relocate.  There were no problems between 2/14 and 3/14 after a relative talked to her.  And she even feeds the cat when I'm working long shifts.  But, after St. Patrick's Day, she's kind of back to her evil ways.  She blocked my car in on purpose again and left in someone else's car, making me late for work.  But, the house is not on the market yet, so that's good.  But we keep things "realtor ready" almost every day, as she does have a realtor.

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Re: Living With Grandma's Daughter
« Reply #97 on: April 05, 2019, 08:02:47 PM »
I have only read this page but I would say you should just pack what you can and leave.
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Re: Living With Grandma's Daughter
« Reply #98 on: April 06, 2019, 07:34:19 PM »
I have only read this page but I would say you should just pack what you can and leave.

She's had other less savory digs, but this sounds miserable. :-\