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Re: The Kingdom of Drama without Heather Wade
« Reply #49755 on: November 14, 2018, 06:54:12 PM »
She has apologized a few times has she not?

To the people she directly attacks? I've seen one or two. But then it keeps happening. I've honestly hit the point of emotional exhaustion with her. She's welcome to do whatever she wants, as she has been, but I, personally, bearing the brunt of most of those, am going to ignore anything she does. Getting called stalker, sociopath, Nazi, etc. after every single interaction becomes irritating. I'm not telling anybody else what to do. I'm only saying my choice of action.
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Re: The Kingdom of Drama without Heather Wade
« Reply #49756 on: November 14, 2018, 06:54:53 PM »
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Re: The Kingdom of Drama without Heather Wade
« Reply #49757 on: November 14, 2018, 07:02:48 PM »
I have sympathy for anyone with cancer. That being said, I stand with my view that it doesn't give anyone the right to just lash out at people, especially if they don't show any remorse after the anger has passed.  I kinda view it like this: if it came out feathers had cancer, would that excuse her actions up to this time? In my opinion, I would still have the opinion that I currently do of her. I realize that probably makes me a stubborn and bad person, but that's my opinion.

Dammit!  I thought I was done thinking for the week. ;)   Good point about feathers.
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Re: The Kingdom of Drama without Heather Wade
« Reply #49758 on: November 14, 2018, 07:07:15 PM »
She has apologized a few times has she not?

I thought it was done, then it seemed to start up all over again.

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Re: The Kingdom of Drama without Heather Wade
« Reply #49759 on: November 14, 2018, 07:07:57 PM »
To the people she directly attacks? I've seen one or two. But then it keeps happening. I've honestly hit the point of emotional exhaustion with her. She's welcome to do whatever she wants, as she has been, but I, personally, bearing the brunt of most of those, am going to ignore anything she does. Getting called stalker, sociopath, Nazi, etc. after every single interaction becomes irritating. I'm not telling anybody else what to do. I'm only saying my choice of action.

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Repeated needs for apologies indicates either an insincerity or a serious mental health problem.

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Re: The Kingdom of Drama without Heather Wade
« Reply #49760 on: November 14, 2018, 07:08:15 PM »
To the people she directly attacks? I've seen one or two. But then it keeps happening. I've honestly hit the point of emotional exhaustion with her. She's welcome to do whatever she wants, as she has been, but I, personally, bearing the brunt of most of those, am going to ignore anything she does. Getting called stalker, sociopath, Nazi, etc. after every single interaction becomes irritating. I'm not telling anybody else what to do. I'm only saying my choice of action.

I’m not saying that I disagree with you. I’ve seen the shit she’s said and commend you for having a level head on your shoulders and taking the higher road. Chemo turns people’s minds into mush. I’ll assume that’s got to trigger and crossfire emotions somehow. Maybe whity comebacks help her feel somthing and gives her somthing to fight for, even if it is misdirected at the real problem.


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Re: The Kingdom of Drama without Heather Wade
« Reply #49761 on: November 14, 2018, 07:11:59 PM »
I’m not saying that I disagree with you. I’ve seen the shit she’s said and commend you for having a level head on your shoulders and taking the higher road. Chemo turns people’s minds into mush. I’ll assume that’s got to trigger and crossfire emotions somehow. Maybe whity comebacks help her feel somthing and gives her somthing to fight for, even if it is misdirected at the real problem.


I will be doing a book signing with Dr. Phil at a Walmart near you.

Cool. What book will you sign?  Any random book?

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Re: The Kingdom of Drama without Heather Wade
« Reply #49762 on: November 14, 2018, 07:13:39 PM »
I thought it was done, then it seemed to start up all over again.

Talking about starting all up again, where’s my Thanksgiving Invitation? Will there be turkey with #DeliciousGravy or ROUND pizza cut in TRIANGLES? You know how much I love both.
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Re: The Kingdom of Drama without Heather Wade
« Reply #49763 on: November 14, 2018, 07:14:47 PM »
Cool. What book will you sign?  Any random book?

Any random book just for you my sweet! 😉

As long as it doesn’t mention #CheeseTurds.
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Re: The Kingdom of Drama without Heather Wade
« Reply #49764 on: November 14, 2018, 07:15:06 PM »
Talking about starting all up again, where’s my Thanksgiving Invitation? Will there be turkey with #DeliciousGravy or ROUND pizza cut in TRIANGLES? You know how much I love both.

Maybe the turkey should be stuffed with triangle pizza. Pumpkin pie after.

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Re: The Kingdom of Drama without Heather Wade
« Reply #49765 on: November 14, 2018, 07:17:25 PM »
Any random book just for you my sweet! 😉

As long as it doesn’t mention #CheeseTurds.

Maybe there is a Book of Trolls, that'd be prefect.
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Re: The Kingdom of Drama without Heather Wade
« Reply #49766 on: November 14, 2018, 07:17:56 PM »
Maybe the turkey should be stuffed with triangle pizza. Pumpkin pie after.

I’m down for all of the above! Make sure the pizza has pepperoni and onions and the scrumptious pumpkin pie has a dab of Cool Whip.
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Re: The Kingdom of Drama without Heather Wade
« Reply #49767 on: November 14, 2018, 07:18:19 PM »
I’m not saying that I disagree with you. I’ve seen the shit she’s said and commend you for having a level head on your shoulders and taking the higher road. Chemo turns people’s minds into mush. I’ll assume that’s got to trigger and crossfire emotions somehow. Maybe whity comebacks help her feel somthing and gives her somthing to fight for, even if it is misdirected at the real problem.


I will be doing a book signing with Dr. Phil at a Walmart near you.

Of course, I also understand what you are saying. But that's also another reason why it's best for me to ignore her. If my every reply to her triggers her, it's best not to reply. Granted that won't stop me from interacting with others here, but the ignore button is there for a reason.

P.s. Wal-Marts are called Seiyus here. You better bring turkey, it's rare here and I'm hungry.  ;)
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Re: The Kingdom of Drama without Heather Wade
« Reply #49768 on: November 14, 2018, 07:18:39 PM »
Maybe the turkey should be stuffed with triangle pizza. Pumpkin pie after.

Don’t mention pie
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Re: The Kingdom of Drama without Heather Wade
« Reply #49769 on: November 14, 2018, 07:19:43 PM »