Understood. But you are not an asshole. You are not constantly manipulating and baiting good people with insane gibberish. You did not use the religion and cancer cards to falsely elicit sympathy. And then joke in the other forum how you fooled the empathetic people here.
No one should throw anyplace they enjoy "under the bus".
But this misfire of a human being dragged in shit from next door. As do some others here. It's a sick game to them, acting relatively sociable here, then spewing hatred over there. Not everyone who visits both forums does this. But the ones that do create problems.
Anybody who jokes about Jewish people and ovens and Mormons and "lies" (among much other filth) should stay in their own little corner of hell.
Funny how some tossed from here have morphed into even worse losers. Females, too.
And our little comedian who felt the need to show our flag being burned - he should crawl back in his shithole with the rest of the trash.
Someday I'll tell you how I REALLY feel.
Based on your description, how could I disagree in general. TW would agree with a lot of it, too. She hadn't been insincere, hadn't been lying. In denying things in BG, she is just being petulant; that's all. You expect a lot of her, considering the social pressure she felt. Where you see her as lying, I see her as running.
I have often considered being one way in this forum and another way in BG. Especially in the thread I visit the most.
Thanks for writing. It just hurts me to see a personality conflict between two good people. I'm glad you value honesty. But her lie is so transparent, like a little kid - considering that everyone knows you can't have cancer and not have cancer, it seems to me like she's doing farce, is all. I'm glad she apologized to you; you had not originally done anything very serious to offend her. I think she lumps everyone in with everyone. You can see she is often an all-or-nothing thinker, using words like "Everyone is picking on me", when God knows I and many others are not "everyone". But, we all have our faults. Lying is bad, but in the obvious context of itself and in the context of a victim complex, it's not the worst fault. And, she does engage in redeeming contributions to the overall flow.
TW is just being petulant, a lesson George Noory's Petula (non-petulant) Clark could learn from.