The Kingdom of Nyet with Heather Wade

[anniem]

I appreciate your time. You aren't bothering me. LOL! I wouldn't be posting on a forum if I weren't keen on a discussion...and you're correct...there are some nice people here. I guess.

I appreciate your time too.   

[tootsie_wootsy]

I would expect that there weren't limits on that or your buddies list either (@bartell would know that rather instantaneously).  I've only had to use it on three people; shatters upon the threads.  Tipsy Shitsy Ditsy and her fascist-loving double speak and projection-like nazi calling (they were socialists, by the way) has gotten to manic proportions with the posts... She can wallow all she wants, she's turning into an aged zavtard.

Nazis were not and are not currently socialists,,   shows how ignorant you are ,  i mean ignore  lol
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[K_Dubb]

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misogynist statement   

Honey, that word has lost all meaning when you can employ it so unthinkingly.  Praising a woman for taking control of her body at the most basic and empowering level is exactly the opposite.

[anniem]

I would expect that there weren't limits on that or your buddies list either (@bartell would know that rather instantaneously).  I've only had to use it on three people; shatters upon the threads.  Tipsy Shitsy Ditsy and her fascist-loving double speak and projection-like nazi calling (they were socialists, by the way) has gotten to manic proportions with the posts... She can wallow all she wants, she's turning into an aged zavtard.

I didn't like the idea, but Mr M helped me give it a try. It did improve the overall experience.

[albrecht]

In the beginning I liked his show better than Art's. I mean I would listen to Art but would be more excited for what Dickweed would have coming up on his show. Originally I thought it was a good idea for him to get his own show, and to follow Art's timeslot on the same network created possibilities that Richard could build on.

In the end RCH sabotaged his own show. The show turned him into a sociopath. Do you have a favorite episode? Towards the end, or even the midway point there was no direction at all and I found most of his shows to be totally forgettable. Some of his last shows on DMDN and Fred's station were just clusterfucks.

In the end the braapz ended up being the only reason to listen. His intro theme was really fun though.

Yes, Art "wasn't into it" and was rehashing same guests and RCH in "Dick Cavett mode"  was actually engaging and all the hilarious technical faults, no understanding how systems worked, open mics, ringing phones, etc.  I can't think of a particular favorite episode but when Rossy was producer and RCH let guests talk a bit. Also a few when he got that old stoner radio guy as producer and they would reminiscence about radio, SW, media, etc.

[albrecht]

He was fun to listen to, the phone ring during his intro was hilarious!

The child porn crap was the final nail in the coffin.  I did tune in occasionally until then.

I was gone before the last bit but heard about it when someone posted an excerpt. Very bizarre and his explanations, hopefully that is what they were, were not good and seemed like he was defending it and was surprised it was illegal!  I think/hope what RCH was trying to convey is that planting, or just claiming, that kind of material is a good way for "them" to discredit or 'take someone out.'  I could be giving RCH too much credit- because he kept on about "just watching" and "First Amendment" etc which got creepy indeed.

[Azzerae]

Thanks!

I'd not mind to hear what you think those lines are, if you'd not mind to post. If you prefer not, that's ok.

It is easy to be awful behind a keyboard.

That must be so. I can't imagine it would be filled with nothing but bullies.

In the other post you said this:
It does tear me up when I see someone being bullied and no one stands up for the victim. I just can't shake this protective instinct.

Here are some questions without seeing the definition you might offer to what you see bullying to be:
Did you mean that HW is being bullied here in Ellgab?
If she doesn't come all the way to Ellgab to read this thread, has no knowledge of the posts here is it still bullying?
Is it all bullying the moment she logs in and comes to this thread and sees it, so not bullying until she sees it?
Thanks!

Well, I mean, just as Dynamo Hum said, picking on people for their psychical appearance...I think that's bullying...I mean, she was right in saying there's lots of other juicier things to pick on. But the dilemma is that everyone has different lines they either will or won'r cross. I don't think Heather deserves to have her looks assessed by a bunch of basement dwelling losers. But then again, she's put herself out there...so I guess IN A WAY its fair game.

Bullying is something that take place when you're present, you're right. I think thats what you're getting at. You've caught me on a technicality and its semantics at the end of the day.

Is bullying the relentless picking apart of everything and anything Heather does? Perhaps not. But basically a lot of this shit borders on targeted harrassment and doxxing lite.

Sure. Heather has been discussed extremely negatively here at EllGab - which borders on character assassination, but no, I guess its not bullying so to speak.

You're alluding to the whole "if a tree falls in the woods and no ones around to hear it did it fall" thing and my response has to be this: Heather may not know what goes on here, and probably saves herself a lot of pain by not visiting the site, but lets face it, the whole thing is just wrong.

This is a bit woo woo perhaps but I believe it has a kernel of truth in it...directing negative comments, energy, attention and insults (remotely or long distance) at a person actually does affect them and their psyche. What is happening is that stuff is reaching her and hurting her and its genuinely bad juju. So people can sit around and justify it all they want - but if the woman offed herself tomorrow every one of the horrid things people did would have contributed to that.

[paladin1991]

It is sort of like that living in the desert. I live in the Mojave and we just snapped cold. I turned the heater on and am sporting my Under Armour for warmth! Yeah 68 and I'm wearing cold gear ha ha ha!!!

I remember how cold a desert can be.  Shiii-ite.

[tootsie_wootsy]

Well, I mean, just as Dynamo Hum said, picking on people for their psychical appearance...I think that's bullying...I mean, she was right in saying there's lots of other juicier things to pick on. But the dilemma is that everyone has different lines they either will or won'r cross. I don't think Heather deserves to have her looks assessed by a bunch of basement dwelling losers. But then again, she's put herself out there...so I guess IN A WAY its fair game.

Bullying is something that take place when you're present, you're right. I think thats what you're getting at. You've caught me on a technicality and its semantics at the end of the day.

No, bullying is just the relentless picking apart of everything and anything Heather does. Basically targeted harrassmeny and doxxing lite.

I think Heather has been discussed extremely negatively here which borders on character assassination but no I guess its not bullying at the end of the day.

You're alluding to the whole "if a tree falls in the woods and no ones around to hear it did it fall thing" and my response has to be this: Heather may not know what goes on here, and probably saves herself a lot of pain by not visiting the site, but lets face it, the whole thing is just wrong.

This is a bit woo woo perhaps but I believe it has a kernel of truth in it...directing negative comments, energy, attention and insults at a person actually does affect them and their psyche. What is happening is that stuff is reaching her and hurting her and its genuinely bad juju. So people can sit around and justify it all they want - but if the woman offed herself tomorrow every one of the horrid things people did would have contributed to that.

wow, you're fabulous.. you are the first one to go on my buddy list but i don't know what happens after you put someone on your buddy list .. are we engaged or something?

[twistedlogic]

Jay has posted pictures of Heidi and her parents including the one of her father very ill in his Heather Wade Presents  facebook group. I did post them here to show, but realized that was not the best action.

[whoozit]

Yes, Art "wasn't into it" and was rehashing same guests and RCH in "Dick Cavett mode"  was actually engaging and all the hilarious technical faults, no understanding how systems worked, open mics, ringing phones, etc.  I can't think of a particular favorite episode but when Rossy was producer and RCH let guests talk a bit. Also a few when he got that old stoner radio guy as producer and they would reminiscence about radio, SW, media, etc.

I seem to recall a show where they were debating the merits of the icebox over the refrigerator.  Riveting radio.  But there was a time when I too found myslelf liking the RCH show more than Art’s.

[Spookcat]

PBS get your willy white ass over here and give me some birthday spankings.

Good morning, afternoon and evening everyone!
Happy birthday, @GravitySucks!!

[tootsie_wootsy]

Honey, that word has lost all meaning when you can employ it so unthinkingly.  Praising a woman for taking control of her body at the most basic and empowering level is exactly the opposite.

you're statement

     "Whatever she's doing, she should keep it up.  Any woman in her forties who's kept her weight and hair moves to the front of the line.  It's grim out there.   "

yes, Misogynist with a capital M  , honey

[DynamoHum]

Well, I mean, just as Dynamo Hum said, picking on people for their psychical appearance...I think that's bullying...I mean, she was right in saying there's lots of other juicier things to pick on. But the dilemma is that everyone has different lines they either will or won'r cross. I don't think Heather deserves to have her looks assessed by a bunch of basement dwelling losers. But then again, she's put herself out there...so I guess IN A WAY its fair game.

Bullying is something that take place when you're present, you're right. I think thats what you're getting at. You've caught me on a technicality and its semantics at the end of the day.

No, bullying is just the relentless picking apart of everything and anything Heather does. Basically targeted harrassmeny and doxxing lite.

I think Heather has been discussed extremely negatively here which borders on character assassination but no I guess its not bullying at the end of the day.

You're alluding to the whole "if a tree falls in the woods and no ones around to hear it did it fall thing" and my response has to be this: Heather may not know what goes on here, and probably saves herself a lot of pain by not visiting the site, but lets face it, the whole thing is just wrong.

This is a bit woo woo perhaps but I believe it has a kernel of truth in it...directing negative comments, energy, attention and insults at a person actually does affect them and their psyche. What is happening is that stuff is reaching her and hurting her and its genuinely bad juju. So people can sit around and justify it all they want - but if the woman offed herself tomorrow every one of the horrid things people did would have contributed to that.

And to think we probably all found this place from a site that was called George Noory Sucks...that the most popular threads or most infamous on BellGab was the Falkie thread, that the MITD thread hit peak shite when Art died and heather went nuts ....

I popped over to Decon’s thread on BG and saw that he was calling me an English Cunt, and you were in that thread as well - does that make you as guilty as him of bullying me? Is he bullying me? I don’t think he is because I don’t actually give a shit about what he says.

There are a few differences between BG and EG, possibly small to the casual observer, but they are distinctive. Yes we are a kinder mellower place, and we appear to be more focused on Heater, on BG anything and anyone is a target. BG appears to be fixated with EG, whereas EG doesn’t really give a shit about BG (which I feel probably burns a few of the people who post there).

Where is the worse place? Maybe we are equally as bad for different reasons, maybe we both live in glass houses and shouldn’t throw stones...

[paladin1991]

0341.  Mortar man?