Spookcat is a human piece of turd and IT WAS ALL HER FAULT...
Tootsie, are you purposely trying to provoke more negative responses to you? Putting a smiley emoticon in a barbed statement which you have made several times before and MEANT it doesn't make it "just kidding around.' Why start this up again when it's been quiet? You are asking for the very kind of responses you say upset you so terribly.
Honestly, I just don't understand what good you think can come of this.