WHY CANT YOU BE NICE TO ME??
You've upset a number of people here with your views in the DV discussion. You've got some opinions that lack knowledge and experience in the area. Rather than an offensive incorrect statement on such a topic I suggest instead you look into the issue and find out the reason why people do not report the issue. You would end up with a different opinion based on information OUTSIDE of yourself.
Most people here enjoy good entertainment and humor, and most do not enjoy being upset. That is my opinion why people behave towards you in a way that you view to be "not nice".
Did you actually need this explained to you?
It is late for me, and I shall not state the bloody obvious anymore tonight. Time for sleeping Chubbchubb.