The Kingdom of Nyet with Heather Wade

[sean92008]

His skin is even thinner than Heather's.  I notice that if I send him an email with a screenshot or a question, he doesn't reply but there's usually a public reaction.

He claims he's broadcast on a Tejano music station... Yeah, fucking right.

I had no intention of doing this but, after getting kicked out of his discord, I put a few minutes of time and found what I needed to.  These guys are walking self-immolation machines.  I'll anonVPN his discord and stir shit when I have an evil hair up my ass...  It will be fun. 

[Fancy Lady Boots]

I wonder if they aren't all the same person.  Both Jackstar and Dr MD would get grumpy over the littlest of things, felt like a spectrum issue.

Could be menopause. Just sayin' ... 

[Pizzapunch]

He claims he's broadcast on a Tejano music station... Yeah, fucking right.

I had no intention of doing this but, after getting kicked out of his discord, I put a few minutes of time and found what I needed to.  These guys are walking self-immolation machines.  I'll anonVPN his discord and stir shit when I have an evil hair up my ass...  It will be fun.

I can't wait should be entertaining

[Richard Groyper]

I really can't criticize because I liked this song when it came out, yikes:

 

I was still pretty young then though.

On another note, that came out during the time that Tipper Gore was trying to ban words in songs because they were immoral. That band was from the UK and I vaguely remember them trying to ban music from other countries. Yeah, it wasn't good but I don't want anyone else figuring that out for me.

Also if you listen to the song you'll hear Andrew Dice Clay, the comedian. I used to think he was really funny so when he came to The Moore in Seattle where I lived at the time I asked a friend to get us some tickets. He did, we had second row seats. So I find it funny when people think they are doing some damage to me when they call me a cunt @Richard Groyper.  I used to seek that sort of humor out. You're out of your league, Richard Groyper aka Rekcuf.

okay, cunt. @Roswells, Art

[Richard Groyper]

As long as they're fancy! 

absolutely.

[Bobs Your Uncle]

Completely agree. As I have said before, EllGab is BellGab all growed up. If anyone misses the racial slurs and gay bashing and junior high school verbal attacks, that's what 4chan is for. There is plenty of disagreement on here, it's just done with maturity and respect by adults, not with nastiness and disrespect by frat boys. It's sad that civility is regarded as a negative trait. Civility does not equal safe space and weakness, it equals tolerance, courtesy and decorum. It takes far more intellectual depth to be civil than it does to be an imbecile. And Bart has rightfully demonstrated that those who can't bring themselves to be civil can play amongst the animals.

We don't come here to be constantly insulted by morons. That's what family is for.

Well said 4KatDad. +1

[Ghost BEP]

Doesn’t he (Gary) do a show on varafied’s network?

Yup. You’d think that FBI man would have picked up on that.

[sean92008]

the aftermath of your banning. Mike vara would like you to mind your own business haha

He'll be needing to update his affiliates list after KOY reads my message.  https://www.lnmradionetwork.com/affliateslistenlive

He should anyway, he's got another 13W station that's supposedly really on board with him. Make that two, along with the trailer park microwatt station with no FCC censorship rules because it is so small.

I wouldn't have done a thing, I was going to tell my friend in Upper Saddle River to try to tune it in (sort of as a joke) but he was an AB fan.  Thing is, the station says they pretty much transmit to their little community only.  Cunt Vara made it sound like it's a tri-state powerhouse.

By the way, I just said I was listening so I could hear what went on with the Nye Sheriff...  I didn't call him out or anything.  I should have been screen shotting but I literally got booted into another screen. 

[Fancy Lady Boots]

As for Heather, Art's "she's getting better every day" narrative was BS and he had to know it. I think it was a face-saving measure by him since he had pumped her up so much to us (and to herself). If he bailed on her, that said more about him than it did her. From what Keith said on the Sendoff Show, it did sound as if Art may have finally admitted defeat with her toward the end, because IIRC Keith said that Art had less and less to do with Heather/the show in the final few months or so. I'm sure much of that was due to the fact that he was dying of COPD, but Keith also made it sound like Art had grown frustrated with Heather and her refusal to take advice. So in that sense, by then even Art didn't believe "she was getting better every day."

I somehow missed that Art was less involved the last few months. That actually explains a lot. I do think she improved for a while at first, then sort of plateaued, and seemed to be getting actively worse toward the end. I wonder how much handholding Art was doing during shows. Of course, her insecurity (well-earned) about dropping subs probably only made matters worse.

[Aquarius]

   <snip>  I am actually in agreement with you about extremes. Both 4chan and Safe Spaces represent symptoms of two extremes in a deteriorating social fabric. Neither should need to exist, but they do. 4chan is in effect a relief valve of unchanneled anger and misplaced creativity. Safe Spaces are both a political vehicle of a reactionary sort to the very perceptions  (right or wrong) of the type of person that inhabits 4chan in everyday society... <snip>

Interesting that you state this so well tonight, Dyna. Today I had to take a 60-screen online course and quiz required by the university where I teach courses now and again, some in person and some online. They have established a new policy on sexual misconduct, relationships and stalking; a policy on consensual intimate relationships, a policy on non-discrimination and anti-harassment policy and complaint procedures (this last, one for faculty, one for employees, and one for students, and some others as well.

These are meant to create a Safe Space for everyone. Some of what they spell out was very clear and very good. But some of the obligatory reporting was, to me, draconian (you would be obligated to report if a student asked for confidentiality and told you they had been sexually molested, for example, years before being at the university, and that they were now of age and were ok, didn't want anything to be done, they just wanted to talk about it. MUST report that? That would squash any opportunity for a student to feel comfortable asking for advice or guidance faster than a speeding bullet!

Fortunately there was a place to comment (in the spirit of academic free speech) on what you thought about the policy, and I did. There will be no repercussions from that, my bet is they won't even read my comments.

But that was very sobering and scary to me, way too authoritarian and not really creating a "safe space."

Again, I agree with you, both extremes are damaging, and I prefer to cruise somewhere in the middle even as the precise place on the scale may vary from post to post.

+1 to you for taking the time to write that post, thank you.

[Bobs Your Uncle]

After getting booted from the LNM chat in less than a minute (Michael is a cunt), here's what I was after...  Completely useless though:

LNM affiliate 1620 AM...  They say "We are whats considered a AM  micro station. We use a 100 milliwatt AM transmitter. If you are lucky enough to live in the High Point Country Club we cover the entire lake community!"  In other words, a trailer park station...

LNM affiliate WCET 101.7 FM...  DOESN'T FUCKING EXIST (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/101.7_FM )

LNM affiliate KOY... Uh, I'll be contacting these guys because it sure don't look like they'd be playing Cuntmouth Vara unless he knows some Norteno music...  (https://elpatronphoenix.iheart.com/) 

So...  Those "affiliates" are so worth mentioning.

Here's the link to their list.  Notice the address misspelling... Genius.  I've messaged the Latino station about his claim and pointed out he's got some flaws that they might find interesting, just in case he is on from 3:30 a.m. to 3:34 a.m. Sunday mornings.

And yet he speaks only the truth. Nice work Sean! +1

[Pizzapunch]

He'll be needing to update his affiliates list after KOY reads my message.  https://www.lnmradionetwork.com/affliateslistenlive

He should anyway, he's got another 13W station that's supposedly really on board with him. Make that two, along with the trailer park microwatt station with no FCC censorship rules because it is so small.

I wouldn't have done a thing, I was going to tell my friend in Upper Saddle River to try to tune it in (sort of as a joke) but he was an AB fan.  Thing is, the station says they pretty much transmit to their little community only.  Cunt Vara made it sound like it's a tri-state powerhouse.

By the way, I just said I was listening so I could hear what went on with the Nye Sheriff...  I didn't call him out or anything.  I should have been screen shotting but I literally got booted into another screen.

I feel like if he gets stirred up just a bit more he's going to vomit the entire story up. I don't think it will take too much prodding especially if it's a night where he's had a lot to drink and close to the end of the month.

[sean92008]

I somehow missed that Art was less involved the last few months. That actually explains a lot. I do think she improved for a while at first, then sort of plateaued, and seemed to be getting actively worse toward the end. I wonder how much handholding Art was doing during shows. Of course, her insecurity (well-earned) about dropping subs probably only made matters worse.

Let me guess.  He quittened November 17, 2017... 

Wasn't that the day of Heather's little "we may not be here much longer" announcement?

[Spookcat]

Btw, referencing a post from PBS a bunch of pages back, Jinger Rat Snaps was one of the posters who put up a whole bunch of neo-nazi and anti-semitic stuff, shortly after I joined Bellgab. When there were several other posts carrying that forward, it really gave me pause.

For me, just as with truly racist put-downs, there's nothing funny about it. Just recalling is all. So much better here!

I don't agree with that mindset, and I don't find it funny. Maybe it's because I'm used to seeing that stuff on the internet but usually I just ignore it unless there's an actual threat. It's like those old family members who are racist and you've exhausted yourself trying to get them to stop so you just move on and ignore them.

[Bobs Your Uncle]

   You've well established that he is not a threat.  Without knowing his background, he could have been anyone, up to and including a violent reprobate on drugs that kills cats and harasses the elderly. He could be a twelve-year old in a basement saying things for attention. There is no way to immediately know for sure. When in doubt, and until proven otherwise, it is best practice to assume the worst case scenario. While I was reasonably sure his threat was not credible or actionable under current practices, (prior to your first response) in my opinion and the opinion's of several others it was in bad taste, no matter what PW's intent was.
   
    I am actually in agreement with you about extremes. Both 4chan and Safe Spaces represent symptoms of two extremes in a deteriorating social fabric. Neither should need to exist, but they do. 4chan is in effect a relief valve of unchanneled anger and misplaced creativity. Safe Spaces are both a political vehicle of a reactionary sort to the very perceptions  (right or wrong) of the type of person that inhabits 4chan in everyday society, and by extension the activity that was seen on Bellgab that was driving people away.
   
    I would not think Bart would want a Church Lady site, nor is that what anyone on site actually wants. My morality is not sourced from religious Puritanism, but rather a desire for at least a moderate sense of order and decorum. For the most part, he has been successful in doing this.  The Zoo was a very creative idea.

    As for the torch incident it was one of hundreds suffered by both my Mom and I at the hands of my biological father. I wouldn't surround myself with anyone of his ilk, nor any abusive people in general. If you are not educated about domestic violence, please watch the movie A Burning Bed, for an approximate parallel kind of story. It is full of violence of course. My father would take out his aggression and anger to anything or anyone in his path including pets. He would brag about running people off the road into the ditch. He had an IQ of 89, got through school when there was still an 'E' between 'D' and 'F' in the grading system. He was addicted to all kinds of things, at one point or another, usually one at a time. Today, he is on the downhill side of things and alone.  Materially, he made it out like a bandit with two nice houses and a brand new Vette paid for in cash. He was oblivious to my Mom dying of MS complications in 2009. As for me, I'm childless, never been married and agnostic. My cat really is my family.

    As for John Cleese, the specific sketch you talked about was not a BBC product (as an example of their censorship), and the humour was not about gratuitous violence, but vectored on absurdity. Same idea as Tom and Jerry, the Coyote and the Roadrunner.  Nothing new under the Sun. I wouldn't want him banned from comedy. Regarding sites ending up with 3 posters, that is a bit of a slippery slope. Snooze-fest? Does it all have to be about entertainment? Isn't what you have learned here reward enough?

PS) To tie this back to Heather, remember the illustration I gave when there was a discussion as to why someone might wrong a string of people - or do things that seemed insane in desperation or confusion? I was painting my life history into that anonymously as an illustration. It gives empathy, even though it does not excuse anything she may have done.

PPS) For Brig. Before you advocate for the Anarchic and censorship free society, consider all the things that protect your comfortable place with the beautiful overlook.  You probably wouldn't like living in the world you idealize. Think about it. (you can TL/DR the above like you did on my post in Feb 2017, or read it and consider the diverse viewpoints you claim to want to understand.)

Thank you for this post. It is something you didn't have to do but I appreciate it. +1