I think it's an incorrect assumption.. heather said something about 'you're showing that, or that lil thing" or something like that and a couple people here said he wagged his ween.. I wasn't listening closely but I didn't think that at all. But if others are positive I'll acquiesce.
She said, "I see your little friend" She may have said "I see your little friend down there" but she definitely said she saw his little friend. And she completely denied ever having even had said conversation a couple days later. Just acted like it never happened and she never said it. I commented on it as it happened. She was lying to her audience straight up. Or she is so drugged up during her shows she really does not recall anything she ever says. After all, she also stated that she has never said anything to hurt anybody in her life. This after continuing to talk about Art's death being a suicide. Her mind is a disconnected mash of cray cray.
All that said, I have dealt with this with my brother and mother. Both have mental illness. They literally say things and do things then later on act like and state they never said it or did it. But get mad as hell when you tell them they did. I learned long ago not to expect kindness, common courtesy, logic, empathy, or pretty much any other humane characteristic you can think of from them. Heather seems to be wired similarly so we may be expecting things from her she will never give.