@FISH Oh yes! This is a legit concern!!! 
Break it up with a splash of color! Scarf perhaps?
I'm glad you stopped in, don't be nervous...sit down, have some tea...
My splash of color is wearing the L.L.Bean's classic utility jacket in the winter--dusty olive.
I do wear a Bonhomme scarf in the winter. Ask
@Bart Ell who is Bonhomme.
In the summer I wear a 100% cotton, double-sided printed paisley Bandana--black, gray or pink. Never RED.
I drink Starbucks coffee - 2 cups every morning-- summer, spring, fall and winter.
I play vinyl records.
HOWEVER, I am not a HIPSTER.
Thank you for the "welcome" Ms. Dot.
ps/Not sure if you ever want to 'speak' to me again.

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