what she is saying only makes sense if you accept her theory that anything that happens to us is somehow part of a bigger picture. But the fact is that, in the end, it is not up to us if we want to be abducted or not. If it were it would not be happening. That is completely out of our control and has nothing to do with us.
Just saying that somehow somewhere we agreed to this is absurd. That is a victim saying it is my fault. That is insane.
