I'm enjoying this conversation by the way.
Hm. Completely putting her behaviors aside, just the photos here. I don't think she is all that bad looking.
That was my take. If you take into account personality, she is not attractive. But if you knew nothing at all about her, and this were the picture given to you by a buddy setting you up for a blind date? Most people would not run screaming. They would likely at least attend to see what her personality was like...