Dude she isnt depressed. She is underwater with her son. Autism moms suffer a form of ptsd. Its a lot dealing with a child that needs your attention all the time. You called her son lazy, depending on his diagnosis he probably doesnt realize he has to always pee in the toilet, put his plate in the sink. My son is 13, genius level intelligence but cannot button a shirt. Maybe if you did some research and stopped acting like a tool and a control freak maybe you might make it work. She sounds like she is overwhelmed and needs help and concern. But from I see she wont get that from you.
If miller were cool, hell, I'd even help. Autism is like a rip tide, you can see the shore and the current keeps pulling you away. Multiple old bandmates have autistic kids, family and friends are special ed. teachers and assistants... I fired a drummer for treating an autistic audience member badly after a show.
Miller's gf sounds like an accommodation relationship as opposed to romantic. Poor lady. May she get the help and peace she needs. Sounds like she has
two children she's dealing with...
