I see no problem being courteous and dropping off gifts. So ur gonna give me shit for 5 years?
You showing up at her home wasn't the beginning, it was the last straw. Before that there were endless videos and posts proclaiming your love for Heater, etc. And that's just what we've seen here, you're telling us there are many other channels where you did this.
Any woman on the planet would be concerned, most would be scared to death. She doesn't know what you're thinking, she just sees your actions. You think she's a snowflake? She doesn't sound like one to me. I wouldn't test it if I were you.
You're doing it for Art? Well, he liked Heater. I doubt very much he would like this. In fact, he'd likely have used his resources to have the police pick you up and bring you in for a chat.