After hearing of Kolby's death, I went to her Facebook page...
Sounds like there was a lot going on, her last public post was ominous. I was under the impression her daughter was younger, but I saw a reference to a boyfriend, hopefully she's older and can take care of herself.
Edit: Her blog...
https://colbydatiger.home.blog
She mentioned multiple times on FB that her daughter is autistic. Also, they were constantly in touch with aliens and other non-physical beings. She felt she was in touch with other dimensions most of the time. She also wrote early in the summer about being homeless, that she was hoping to get a down payment on a place she liked, and that her mother would not help her out any more.
Whatever happened, she had a very hard life, and I feel sorry for her.