You picked her. Was it a surprise?
Yes!
After the ring went on, she went from super freak "let's do it on video in public" to the chairwoman of the abstain from sex and nudity is only for perverts councils.
I was actually warned about girls from Japanese "society" being wild and free until "business" (marriage). An ex-girlfriend told me that pre-marriage, I thought she was just jealous... Doh!
All of my money went into our community property shared account and hers, well, didn't.